Pick up lines and attitude to get girls

Here are some topics to explore for anyone looking to understand more about dating girls.

A) Openers: Words used to start a conversation or build a report (pickup lines).

Openers are important, if you don’t have useful openers you will miss out on opportunities where you could have gotten an interested girl’s number or more. These don’t have to be that complicated in my opinion.

I’ve noticed that some people like to get creative with this and spend a lot of time inventing things that aren’t always necessary to get a woman’s attention. I think the only important thing is how effective the opener is. So it doesn’t matter if it’s very short or if it’s a long paragraph. What you need to focus on is whether it gets you where you want to be.

My personal thoughts are to keep it as simple as possible by having just a few openers for the most common interactions you have with women. You can gradually change them to material that you have seen to be more effective as you gain experience.

Openers I use:

Day Game (pick up girls during the day) Openers:

1. “Excuse me. Are you familiar with this area?” (pauses) *1 second pause* “Actually, you’re cute, do you want to have coffee sometime?”

This is designed to make a moving target stop. I like to stop and say this about 2 or 3 meters in front of them as they walk towards me on the sidewalk. This gives them enough time to respond.

2. “Excuse me, you’re cute. Do you want to have coffee sometime?”

This is a direct opener that I use when a target is already stopped. She goes straight to the point and prevents you from wasting too much time if she is going to say no.

Club/Bar Openers:

1. “How are you going to look at me like that and not say anything?”

This is a playful opening commonly taught by a well-known artist known as a Cajun. Obviously this one is used right after a woman has just looked at you. She practically breaks the ice and gives you a lead into the conversation.

2. “Excuse me, do you know any good places around here?”

This is a pretty simple and obvious opener. Here you can gauge how interested she is in your response. This is also a good way to know if she is local or on vacation without asking.

3. “Did you see the fight outside?”

Another no-brainer with a somewhat predictable response. You really don’t need to go into details when he asks what happened. Just say, “The police came, it was crazy.” Then you can introduce yourself right after, with a “Hello, I’m -John Doe- and are you?”

B) How to deal with rejection:

In this game you will learn as you gain more experience that you will face many rejections. A lot of guys get a little thing that some of us like to call ‘one-itis.’ Which means that you take a girl too seriously and become emotionally attached to her.

The key to being successful with women is to understand that she is interested or not. There is no ‘convincing a girl that she likes you’. There are billions of girls in this world with millions of different preferences. Not all girls will find you attractive.

The best way to deal with rejection is to get used to it. It’s just part of the game. Out of 50 girls I ask, I only get about 12 numbers. Then, of those 12 numbers; 5 will flake, 5 will have no chemistry, I could kiss 2 and get intimate with 1.

So to make it easier for you, just don’t take any of them seriously.

C) The Right Attitude:

I think you should have a win/win attitude. To explain this better; If a woman isn’t giving you what you want and you’re not benefiting from being around her, move on to one who is.

Many guys think that to get a pretty girl who is of high quality, you need to spend a lot of money and time on her. However, the truth is that you can find a pretty girl who is of high quality and who is genuinely interested in you if you just sort them “the right way.”

-The right direction-

To narrow it down, you just need to see the women who show the most interest. If you choose to see girls that require more work or maintenance to keep them happy and expect you to chase after them like a puppy, then you are headed down a path full of disappointment. Those qualities should be seen as red flags.

Another thing regarding attitude is not expecting every girl to want to be in a long-term relationship. Women are very emotional creatures and although one day one may say that she wants to be with you forever, the next day she might decide to leave you to chance.

I have found it wise to keep your options open. It can be a good idea to let a girl know that you’re not looking for anything too serious. So I would say this whenever the subject of ‘what kind of relationship are you in’ is brought up. This will avoid the angst, the soap opera drama. You never know when you’ll realize that maybe this girl isn’t someone you want to be deeply committed to.

So now you have some ‘Openers’, tips for handling ‘Rejection’ and The right kind of ‘Attitude’. I hope this article has been useful. Thanks for taking the time to read this and good luck.

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