Anonymous Online Help and NLP Make Sex and Porn Addiction Recovery Permanent
Recent studies reveal that every second: 30,000 people watch online pornography, $ 3,000 are spent on online pornography, 300 searches are made online, and a new pornographic movie is produced in 39 minutes. 30% of companies have reported layoffs of employees for inappropriate use of the Internet. 10% of all Americans admit to having a sexual addiction on the Internet. If you are reading this right now, it is likely that you or someone very close to you is devastated by a porn or sex addiction that up to now has been too tenacious to overcome on your own. I sincerely congratulate you for taking the time to read this, and I know that this article can provide ideas and information to light a path to permanent relief.
An addiction is a dependence on a substance that interferes with normal functioning, and the addiction to pornography and sex is enormous. In future articles, you will learn that pornography and sexual addictions are a form of substance abuse and are more powerful than alcohol and many drugs. This article will focus on a proven path to recovery.
The vast majority of porn and sex addicts do not seek NLP intervention on their own. Why? Because even when they realize the need for help, taking the first step out of the darkness of anonymity and secrecy to face the problem is extremely difficult. The addiction to pornography surrounds us, affects almost all families, but it is very difficult to talk about it. It cannot be ignored that the stigma runs very deep. Furthermore, a “successful” addict will have also built layers upon layers of deception and excuses behind that fake smile, most of them unconscious, and all of them designed to keep the secret and the addiction alive. Addiction is a carefully constructed house of cards, a few years in the making. The most common and devastating deception for the addict is that old “this is the last time” story. 500 episodes later, the addictive mind still acts like this is true.
When it is finally discovered, or when feelings of guilt reach a certain threshold, a few may seek help through their church, most of whom actively fight pornography on many fronts and offer prayer-based methods, repentance and abstinence. Often times, there are undercurrents of guilt and spiritual punishment that can actually strengthen the obsessive / compulsive cycle that fuels addiction. As that cycle continues to deepen, many spiritual, sensitive, and intelligent addicts become socially muted, and too many seriously consider suicide. Does any of this sound familiar to you?
For the individual who wants a way out, what if there was a method that did not fight the sexual nature, but instead harnessed and redirected it to use those same processes that led to addiction to get us out? This article presents a proven path to porn and sexual addiction recovery that is anonymous and effective, and that really does make one feel better as you go. These are:
– Anonymous online deprogramming / rescheduling
– Qualified coaching in neurolinguistic programming (NLP)
Anonymous online deprogramming / reprogramming is an educational process that the addictive mind goes through online, while learning how and why the addiction was formed in the first place, and how to use those same natural means to get out of it. It also challenges the addictive mind to restructure while connecting with other real humans, in the real world, in real time. The addictive mind will learn to confront fears, urges, and cravings, automatically replace them with greater meanings, and use natural sexual energy to launch you toward those goals in life that have been so elusive. Sounds impossible? It’s not. Sound harsh? Well, with the right program, it takes as much discipline and practice as picking up a guitar and learning 3 chords, allowing the student to play great music, and doesn’t it feel great?
Anonymous online deprogramming / rescheduling can also be extended by special invitation to those participating in the journey to recovery. Inviting a spouse, parent, or clergyman into this supporting role lays a foundation for common understanding and incredible acceptance.
Qualified Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) coaching is not therapy. (The addict is not broken, the reality maps of the addictive mind are). It is vitally important to select a coach who specializes in recovery and personal excellence from pornography and sex addiction. It is a special ability to challenge the addictive mind and create new frames of reality that make the switch from old to new ways natural and easy. These specialists don’t require any of the gory details to be effective. NLP focuses heavily on the how, not the what, when, who, or why. A trained NLP coach can greatly accelerate and strengthen recovery efforts and help the former addictive mind to realize that a better life. A full recovery is not when the addictive mind has simply stopped doing the old behaviors, it is when the new mind manifests excellence instead.
I strongly suggest that the above tools be used in the order presented above. In other words, start with anonymous deprogramming / reprogramming online and then graduate from an NLP trainer. By the time the former addictive mind has completed the online program, they will be engaged, conditioned, and often completely overcome the addiction, so any NLP work can focus on generative interventions, rather than corrective ones. This is where the fun really begins!
I invite the reader to search your heart and ask if now is the time to explore the possibility of reclaiming your life through Qualified Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Coaching and Anonymous Online Deprogramming / Reprogramming.