The benefits of chastity before marriage

May 1, 2021 0 Comments

If you are getting married, a priceless gift that you could give your loved one is yourself, without blemish.

Although in these modern times virginity before marriage has decreased and society accepts non-virgins, still, men would get that ego boost by marrying a virgin. Even Saint Joseph was confused if he would accept his fate in rivalry with the will of God. However, due to his humility, he stepped into his destiny and entered that marriage planned by heaven.

Meanwhile, the central theme of this article is chastity, as a “virtue”. Imagine exploring someone who will be forever yours, until death, in marriage. And be with someone who will also explore your body, with all its beauty and nudity in the moments when you need to make yourself known with sophistication, to thrive on naivety. Your self, in fact, is a gift to your loved one, where in marriage your bodies would become one and grow together in love and give birth to children.

A woman gains that heavenly confidence and trust, while telling her husband, “My hymen is not broken.” And that is correct because marriage is sacred. But then, don’t discriminate because love is more than being a virgin or not being a virgin. Love is the greatest of all.

Being chaste requires special care. It is living without malice and preserving the self for God, in a gift package for the loved one. In a sense, as a woman, they say: your lips must taste like “wasabi” and your tongue clean to kiss enough on your wedding day. Your breasts must be full and firm for your husband and your belly must be worthy of being a mother.

Marriage is not easy. You are building a basic unit of a society, and therefore marriage must be giving, understanding, and sacrificing. You should not always escape divorce or annulment (as in extraordinary cases), if one of the spouses falls into a bunk. And so the body of a man and a woman are bound like earth and sky, held in the hands of God. That is why in the Bible, the man and the woman leave their mother and father to become one, because the woman is from the rib of the man, his spouse. Therefore, the value lived by a family and the sacred marriage of husband and wife are examples of strong temples built for the benefit of progress throughout the world.

Chastity is the crown of women, when many men triumphed to preserve it for only one man: the beloved. And although that beautiful and naive body would grow old, melt, and eventually die, its meaning will forever be etched in the womb of the earth and in the happy face of God. Keep my heart safe!

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