How to maximize your seduction skills in minimal time

October 31, 2021 0 Comments

I’ve been in the game for years, actually started amassing PUA-oriented materials when I was only 14 or 15, I’m 38 now … do the math.

In that time I’ve seen the absolute shit you can imagine. I also learned some and a lot about pure gold from today’s current PUA Gurus. I am also a very experienced teacher and practitioner of other “mind and body” oriented skills including acupuncture and oriental medicine, Taoist sexual kung fu, hypnosis, and NLP.

The first thing most people have to do to be really good at seduction is also one of the hardest … Slow down!

They all want to go out and mystically and magically hit every HB they can with the kitchen sink and make them levitate naked on their bed screaming in ecstasy. It just doesn’t work that way … at least not right away

Everyone comes into the game with different skills, skill sets, and internal game problems that need to be solved. Now, putting the inner game stuff aside, it’s important to remember that what you’re doing is learning a new set of skills. Acquiring new skills also requires a methodology by which you can measure your progress and give yourself a roadmap from point A to point Z. Does it make sense? Well, I thought so too … Now.

The first problem as I mentioned is that people try to move faster than the skill sets they have internalized allow … consequently, this leads to a much higher proportion of crashes and burns (and consequent hits to self-esteem, self-image and self-confidence) that may indeed be necessary. The other is not having a clearly defined map or strategy to where you want to go, we take care of that first.

The first step you have to take is a concept that I learned from a fairly famous coach (infamous in some circles) called segment intent. The concept behind segmenting your intention is to simply identify as little as possible exactly what you are trying to achieve and make sure you achieve that goal before moving on to the next one.

Let’s look at the PUA process, for example … What is the overall result? (by the way, that’s a big intention) For most of us, getting laid is somewhere near the top, so we’ll start there. Now the next thing you need to ask yourself is what exactly do I need to get laid. Well, you should probably get a nice and warm HB (i.e. buy temp), right?

Now for that to happen, what would have to come just before? Right before that? Right before that? Get it? Continue the process of working backwards until you have a clearly defined series of steps starting with your chosen goal and then back in sequential microsteps to the first thing you would need to accomplish to start the sequence from the beginning. with the result of the automatic achievement of its objective, that is to say, wet relief.

Now remember that many of the steps in your segment of intent will depend on whatever system or combination of PUA systems you use, but that does not preclude having to include the acquisition of certain skill sets in your repertoire of tools.

That’s part of the process and it really sounds like common sense to me, but to some it may be new and may actually help you design and modify what you know to be more effective because the process may actually allow you to be more aware of things that you lack. Now, the exercise mentioned above translates into the acquisition of almost any objective.

We are talking about skill acquisition. Let’s be honest; We all want to hit a home run the first time. Our unconscious mind tends to perpetuate the behaviors and actions that give us the most protection and / or pleasure and, without further instructions, our unconscious mind will continue to do exactly what it has always done before over and over again, unless it is already very successful. With women, you probably don’t want your UC to run its default program.

UC learns best in small chunks repeated over time with positive feedback that reinforces behavior. Remember that great successes come from a group of little ones! Sort of like making sure all the steps are done correctly in a math equation eventually yielding a correct answer, that concept works the same way with other skills as well.

So to minimize your failures and burns, while building your successes, you need to make your practice more “segmented.” If you are using an SS / nlp based system and want to run patterns, it is almost impossible to do so if you can ‘Don’t even go up to a woman and establish or maintain positive eye contact. In the same way, if you want to work in groups in clubs, you can’t really open a set if you can’t get close or don’t have the necessary openers ready, right?

So naturally, the first step you would take before even starting a pattern would be to simply walk up to someone and say “Hi” while maintaining positive eye contact.

That is all! NO MORE, MISSION ACCOMPLISHED! FEEL GOOD! Small assimilated chunk, very easy to do.

Let’s say you’re having trouble even doing that, if so, then it’s time to break down into an even smaller, easily achievable segment intent. Instead of taking an actual walk, practice eye contact with people you know, people you walk with, etc. Keep doing this until you can maintain a fixed gaze, once you can maintain a fixed gaze (without staring, that scares people and gets you into a nasty fight if you’re not very careful), then add one thing to the exercise .. . a smile.

It looks like we’re really micromanaging, isn’t it … but guess what, each easily digestible micro-fragment builds your confidence, reinforces success through what works, and integrates your micromanages on the unconscious level where you really need them. , and increase your self-esteem, and if you want a true inner game, you must, you must, you must build your self-esteem.

This process also automatically improves your consistency, which means that what you say and what you do are in sync with each other. (Women are killers when it comes to detecting inconsistencies between what men say and how they act.) While at the same time you are rehearsing success after success and getting positive feedback at the same time. This allows you to naturally feel that you are accomplishing something and that engenders the tendency to keep practicing. Sounds like a good time to me!

One of the first mistakes newbies make is that they try to do it too much, too fast. Sometimes the slowest approach is usually the fastest approach. Now, once you’ve learned to divide and digest each step before moving on to the next, your learning process becomes very systematic in the way that you can start adding just one more piece at a time to your existing sequence of skills. Naturally, you will find yourself working steadily through the 4 stages of learning.

Unconscious incompetence – Conscious incompetence – Conscious competence – Unconscious competence

And indeed, the hits will come much faster than you might expect.

Seductively yours

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